Building a strong cohesive family and maintain a worthy goal planning, and effort for it, and women can participate in achieving this goal through the following:
- Establish rules and regulationsOften exploit children the opportunity to busy parents to their work on to hit their brothers or sisters, or shouting and screaming and jumping on the furniture home, and other behaviors disturbing, and to stop such behavior should be no ethical rules embedded in the child prevented him from doing acts, unacceptable, even if Parents filled important work, in contrast to what makes you think they love the children the rules and laws, although they will not admit it, as children feel more reassured and security and love in the presence of family rules. In developing these rules and abide by the children know what is expected when followed or violated her, and if aware of the child that if he cried or later a loud voice during the interview and his mother, the phone will be sent to his room to stay for five minutes it will learn not to scream or make a sound high. You should note that one of the most difficult things to humans - especially children - to maintain commitment to the principle or a particular rule, and may not like the rules children, but over time Christtermunha and adhered to. And feel reassured and safe when they exist.- Building self-worth of each individual in the familyThe mother in the midst of their work and responsibilities are often neglected her husband or her children does not give him a due care, which may thwart or affect the behaviors, a model for neglecting the needs of a family member.Remember that every member of your family needs to feel that it has value, Vozoajna need love and attention, cooperation and encouragement to fulfill their career, and our children need affection and care and guidance, and we share holidays, various activities of the school, as they need us to Nmdham in front of others in the case of their distinctiveness. These things help to build self-worth of the child, the most important things that children find our time and attention and listen to them.- Setting goals can be achievedThere are different types of families, there is a family of father and mother only, and the other from the father and mother and sons, and there are extended family, which includes parents and grandparents, regardless of the size or shape of your family, you need to plan and set goals ninetieth to achieve them with your family, people who have the same values and work together to achieve a common goal they learn love for each other and the spirit of teamwork, cooperation and harmony, and without common goals for the family, each member of it Satakbt way may happen a schism, then try not to let this situation happen to your family, and Eshrawa in the development of common goals to achieve the greatest of happiness for the whole family.Here are some examples of goals that can be placed in the family:The provision of funds to perform the Hajj or Umrah spend.Provide funds for a joint vacation for the family.Clean up neglected or update the part of the house.Choose a common new home, or a new car.Work together to help a family in a difficult subject.Choice of targets that can be achieved.- Family activitiesIdentify periods to spend happy times with your husband and your children, and if you're not married you can spend this time with your family, and more comfortable times are those in which Exchanging a talk with your parents and your brothers and sisters in the family gatherings.My plans for the activities of the family and Sharkey members of the festivals and events, and Sharkey also in strengthening family ties such as collecting aunts, uncles and cousins in concerts to dinner or refreshments and desserts or to discuss some family matters, no doubt that the meeting of children with their relatives will give them friendships and happy memories.You can select the two communities to the night of a week in which members of your family, and're narrative tales and stories, or read parts of the book, or to consult and exchange views with your spouse and your children. Subject to show affection between you and your husband in front of your children; it gives them a sense of feeling of security and peace of mind that their home place of the perfume of life.Take advantage of family nights to assess the level of progress in achieving the goals of the family as well as in development of plans for future work.- Discover the strengths and weaknessesMany keen parents to engage in dialogue and discussion with their children about their school and their friends and their hopes and aspirations, and of course, this talk does not take the form or method of interrogation. Discovering How Vtalma latent talents in your children and Saeidihm to exploit their talents in achieving the legitimate goals.Also try to know the weaknesses in your children to get round to provide assistance to them, for example, some children love the competition and some of them do not like it, so do not correct never have to pay child does not like competition to be involved - against his will - in a sport requiring a high degree of competition .Some parents like to live their lives through the lives of their children, pushing them to revive the former glory days, and this situation may succeed with some of the children, but it may destroy the intrinsic value of the other children.Vtalma know the strengths and weaknesses of all members of your family to Tsaeidihm to develop their talents, and remember that this will not only help them to build their own values, but also demonstrates the great love for them and your eagerness to them.
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